Chapter Four Jackie learned about SB from a girl friend. Like so many SB fans, the initial experience with b**m matured into a long term fascination with bondage without a partner. Here she talks with a gay friend about the gender-switching element in SB. Jackie - Mentored I somehow managed to fall into the b**m world in a perfectly normal way: I went, with Sandy, a girl friend, to get the requisite tattoo as soon as I was old enough. Waiting for the artist to start on me, I read an old paperback that told the story of a young man who wanted a s*x change and spent a lot of time tying himself up as a woman. Strange as that introduction seems, it got me hooked. My parents, as far as I knew, lived a normal, vanilla s*x life. At least I never saw or heard anything to the contrary. So,