WOMAN'S TRAPS. (Alots of women doesn't know the size of their white house)

WOMAN TRAPS EPISODE 8

FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE 👇👇👇

1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you’re

saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.

2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to

your children but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go.

3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every

morning .that was our office.

4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife’s face.

5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary,

it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of the home needs and bills

to pay but if it’s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been

spent.

6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be

compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living

with a wounded woman.

7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your

wife, you will soon be single again.

8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our

large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.

9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be your

eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.

10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of

spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.

11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother

father’s house, to call her out, it was not for s*x, it was because I missed her so

much.

12. My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be

something you’ve stopped doing too.

13. My son, your mother, Asake rode the bicycle with me before I bought that

tortoise car outside there, any woman that won’t endure with you in your little

beginning should not enjoy your riches.

14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man?

15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to

have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you

don’t meet your wife a virgin, don’t blame her, what I didn’t tell you is that our

women had prestige.

17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please don’t make that mistake,the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary

tag.

18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother.

19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I

wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their

arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t exposeany part of their body like your women of nowadays.

20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your

marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us.

21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.

22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret of growing

old and having children to take care of you too.

23. My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to

God that knows everything, everyday.

SECRETS TO HAVING A STRONG RELATIONSHIP

Everyone dreams of having the happiest marriage. You want someone who’s going to love you no matter what, you want a person to have fun with and most importantly, you want someone you can share a happy, fulfilling life with.

If you desire a loving and lasting relationship with your spouse, both of you need to adopt the following habits below:

1. INVEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Reading books on marriage, conflict resolution, and communication techniques will help your marriage. The more you invest in your marriage, the more valuable it becomes. Most importantly, Treat your spouse better than you treat anyone else.

2. COMMUNICATION

Believe it or not, communication is the key to a happy marriage. Never stop communicating. Stay on the same page. Make sure your spouse always knows how you feel. Keeping open communication is arguably the best thing you can do for your marriage.

Make sure that you always communicate clearly about what you want and expect. Remember that good communication is what makes a marriage successful.

3. DON'T GIVE UP:

On your wedding day, you make promises to love your sweetheart forever through the good and bad times. But sometimes the bad outweighs the good by a lot, and marriages end up falling apart. But there are things you can do to make your happy marriage last forever. Be committed to make your marriage work. Don't think the grass is always greener on the other side. Most people who leave their marriages for someone else find the same problems in the new relationship, and many regret not having worked things out in their first marriage. Any married person will tell you that marriages wax and wane. There are good times, bad times, and so-so times. A marriage is viable if the good outweighs the bad, even by a little bit. The more you appreciate the good and try to let the bad roll off, the easier it will get, and the more fondness and connection you will feel towards your spouse.

4. LEARN TO LISTEN

Speaking less and listening more is important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. It’s important you always pay close attention to what your partner has to say. Ask your partner how his/her day went and listen to him/her talk about their day.

5. KEEP YOUR PRIVATE LIFE PRIVATE

When you put your relationship on social media, you invite the public to your relationship. Keep your private matters private. It’s a relationship between you and your partner and not between you, your partner and the public. You can share your fun dates with your partner or some nice photos together on your f*******: or i********: app but make sure you draw the line where necessary.

6. KNOW WHEN TO LET THINGS SLIDE AND LEARN HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICTS

Finding ways to reduce the frequency of conflict in your relationship by letting go of the little things will help you build a strong relationship with your partner. Arguments are normal in a relationship but you should make sure you never insult your partner during an argument. Always listen to what your partner has to say during an argument.

7. COMMITMENT:

Commitment is very important if you desire to have a strong relationship with your partner. You have to decide to stick with your partner and make the relationship work irrespective of the flaws your partner might have. Couples who renew their commitments every day, in words and deed, are on their way to having a strong relationship.

8. MAKE TIME TO DATE

Spending quality time with your partner is important if you desire to build a strong relationship. Nothing substitutes for time together. No matter how busy you are, always create time to go out on dates with your partner.

9. BE TOTALLY TRANSPARENT

Partners in strong relationships have no secrets. If you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner, you have to be completely transparent with your partner. You don’t need privacy in your relationship if you want a strong relationship.

10. TRY NEW THINGS TOGETHER

Whether it be something as simple as watching a movie neither of you has seen, or something as extreme as skydiving, trying new things together as a couple is important if you want to have a strong relationship. Trying new things together keeps the excitement and passion going in your relationship.

11. COMPLIMENT YOUR PARTNER

You shouldn’t save the compliments for big events alone, make complimenting your partner a regular occurrence. You make your partner feel special and noticed when you compliment him/her and this helps build a strong relationship

12. NEVER PUT EACH OTHER DOWN IN PUBLIC

How you treat your partner in front of others matter if you desire to build a strong relationship with your partner. Never ever put each other down or say anything negative about your partner in public. Only say supportive and kind things to each other in public and save disagreements for when you both are alone.

13. NEVER GET TIRED OF SAYING “I LOVE YOU”

These three little words “I love you” are important if you want to build a strong relationship with your partner. No matter how long or hard your day is, always end your day by telling your partner how much you love him/her. End your day with the words “I love you”.

14. LEARN HOW TO COMPROMISE

You have to understand the value of compromise if you want to build a strong relationship. You may not always want to do what your partner wants but if it’s important to your partner, do it with a smile on your face.

Lastly.....

15. Pray and Play Together:

Couples that pray and play together stay together. Hand in hand each morning before you face the vicissitude of life, read a devotional, and pray together.

Take turns to pray for your marriage, your challenges &your children. If its your turn to pray, lift your spouse's burdens to The Lord and thank God for the wonderful spouse He gave you.

Never miss an opportunity to celebrate life's milestones together. Celebrate anniversaries and birthdays. Make it simple and sweet. Play and laugh together. Be merry with the person you married and watch your love for each other grow from strength to strength.

You will not fail in marriage.

BEST TIME TO MAKE LOVE TO YOUR SPOUSE

Yes, you should make love anytime you both want to but here are strategic times you don't want to miss and means the whole world to your spouse.

1. Before they travel.

2. After they return from travelling.

3. Second to fourth days before and after menstruation for those with regular period and wants love making without the drama of pregnancy, condom, pills or injection.

4. Ovulation period for those seeking babies.

5. All through 9 months pregnancy day in, day out as your power can carry. (Don't vomit on uncle during the first trimester sha).

6. When they are not happy.

7. When they feel so lonely or depressed.

8. On a cold rainy night.

9. Early harmattan morning.

10. During celebration e.g new job, business breakthrough, promotion, award of contract, etc.

11. When you are looking super sexy and he can't take his eyes off you.

12. When you are super charming and she is prowling all over you.

13. After settling your "quarrel".

Alright, there you go baby, go rock your lover's bed. Here you go uncle, start doing some press up and weight lifts, you need some energy to do your job during this period, laughs.

Seriously, there is no time limit or barrier to anytime you want to make love to your spouse.

Don't neglect those special moments either, love making during those periods are more meaningful, deep and affectionate but each family differs. Just do what works for you.

SHOCKING THINGS MY HUSBAND SIDE CHICK TAUGHT ME ABOUT s*x AND MARRIAGE

FROM YOUR s*x COACH. EVERY WOMAN MUST READ TO THE END:

My name is Agnes my story is an interesting one, take your time to read it and send it to every wife out there, you may be saving a Home.

I am married to a very loving man, He is an upwardly mobile executive, a brilliant first-class graduate from Unilag. He is almost perfect in everything he lays his hands upon. He was the focus of all girls when we were on Campus, but one way or the other he decided to come for me and married me.

Our marriage was like heaven on earth, we were like two lovebirds. Though my husband travels a lot because of his Job we were ever still very close on phones and through video calls and his coming back home is like that of a King to his Palace, he too will come back home with lots of gifts for his family especially for his beautiful Queen as he used to call me.

We are now seven years in the marriage and it seems ours is an endless love story until some Months ago when my life came crashing down.

My husband has been keeping late nights and do go on weekend journeys but I never doubted him, I never thought of him doing anything wrong, I believed it was all about his Job, couple with the fact that he always called to inform me wherever he was and all was about his job, so I thought.

Some months ago, the day happened to be a public holiday, my husband was working on his Laptop, his phone rang, a friend called him to pick some documents some few streets away, the man sounded very urgent, so he quickly got up and went. In the process, he forgot to shut down his laptop, I was just passing by then I moved closer to shut down the Laptop, but my eyes suddenly went to the mail he was reading, what I saw was a mail from a girl who I felt was more than just a colleague to my husband, but the mail did not really give me a clue to have a piece of watertight evidence of infidelity against my husband, so I decided to dig further.

I tried to check his phone that was when I discovered for the first time that his phone is passworded, so I started trying to know the code, I succeeded after three weeks. I won’t tell you how, I am a woman, I should be able to know everything in my house. I did get code but later I wished I never did. What I found in the Phone almost landed Me in the Hospital, lots of chats with girls, sexy, hot and nude pictures of girls and lots more.

I got the name and phone number of a particular girl who looked like his regular girlfriend and knows everything about him, through their chats I discover she even knows my name and the names of all my Children. I went to f*******: and got more information about this girl but I did not know what to do with the information.

Later I confronted my husband, he first denied it, but confessed to it later and was apologetic and promised to change but never did, in fact, he was growing worse. That was when I decided to do something. I called the girl on phone, her name is Chika, I introduced myself as the wife of Bode and she greeted me warmly, this really shocked me. I confronted her with my facts and I began to rant on her, threatening fire and brimstone, I shouted, cry, cursed and abused her and her parents.

Throughout my call the girl never uttered a word, she only listened attentively, when I was tired of my ranting, I warned her to leave my husband alone. Yet she did not say anything, then I dropped the called. I felt victorious and happy, I felt like rewarding myself for a job well done.

About three hours later the girl called back. What she said woke me up from my slumber. I decided to record her call as evidence against my husband, but the call turned out to be an indictment against my womanhood and a slap on my wifehood.

She said, “Aunty, I am not calling you back to insult you but I call you to let you know what you don’t know. Instead of you to be fighting me you are supposed to thanking me and even pay me for the job I’m doing on your behalf;

“Your husband told me everything about you, he said you hate s*x like a plaque, please if it is a lie let me know, I will leave your husband immediately, he said you use to be very respectful, loving and give him quality s*x regularly but after the birth of your second baby and your promotion to the Managerial level at work you suddenly changed, now all doors of interaction and intimacy are firmly shut, s*x to you is like house chores, you complain about it, run away from it, you give countless excuses, sleeps off when your husband is having s*x with you(How dare you), uses every reason in the book to avoid sex.”

“He said if you allow s*x at all you will be behaving like somebody being beaten by a Soldier, with your face squeeze like a child being punished. He also said you always dress to bed fully kitted like a Military woman as you are fond of wearing jeans knicker in the night and you don’t care if s*x does not take place in your Marriage for Months.”

“Aunty let me ask you a question” she continued, “when last did you slept with your husband? Don’t you notice that your husband has stopped asking for s*x for some months now? and you did not bother about it. I have been helping you out, you should be grateful to me, I wonder why you are fighting him for sleeping with me. I’m only helping you to do the work that is so difficult for you, you need to pay me for it.

When your husband told me you’ve discovered our affair he wanted to pull out from sleeping with me, I did not bother myself, I know he can not do without me because you are not available for him and I know that with what I have given him in bed, he will call for more. He went away for two weeks only to come crawling at my door begging for s*x and I gave him the kind of s*x that will make him forget your house address and your name.

You see, a good man needs to be taken away from a careless woman like you by a smart girl like me. If you want your husband back, don’t fight me, work on yourself, if you don’t do this if he stops sleeping with me or I decide to stop the relationship as you suggested, some other girls more naughty than me will take over from me and they may snatch him totally from you and marry him. He is safe with me as I will never marry him, I am married with two children like you, my husband resides in the US, so your husband is safe with me, Aunty. You will have him back, all I want from him is s*x.

I don’t even collect money from him, ask him, I don’t need his money, I spend Dollar, sent weekly by my stupid husband, who left a hot-blooded girl like me alone here, thinking I am a Nun or a Firewood or I should padlock my Panties till he comes back in God knows when. That is where your husband comes in to rub my back and meet my s****l need and I rub his back too given him what you his wife will never give. My Husband is careless with his precious jewel, you are careless with your exceptional bedroom expert. So two hungry people from two careless people met, the result is a firework in the Bedroom.

Stop fighting innocent girls all around, get back to bed, be a Wife, not just a Manager at Work or a Mother, remember, I work in a Company too, I also raise my two children alone, yet I still sleep with your husband daily on his way from work, I will never say “not tonight dear”

“My back, my Head” I got the energy because I am wiser than you wives who said “yes I do” on your Wedding day but will never “do”, but prefers jumping on phones to fight girls that are sleeping with their Husbands, Girls that they should be paying for helping them to do their jobs.

Stop calling my phone, but you can demand for my account details for the money to be paid every time I sleep with your husband on your behalf, you will then have enough time for your Career, nobody is snatching your husband you are the one misplacing him”

After she dropped the phone, I did not know what to do, whether to cry or laugh, to shout or jump, I was really confused, I listened to the call, again and again, I checked everything she said, she was more than true, I tried to check the last time I slept with my husband, I discovered it was before Christmas last year when he just arrived from South Africa and brought me some gifts, but that was almost Five Months ago.

After then he tried to sleep with me but I gave him bad responses and excuses and he stopped demanding from me and I was very happy, I thought he has changed for better. I used to see him as a s*x addict,

Is it food” I will say. I thought he had been healed of his addiction, It now occurred to me that when he stopped asking for s*x at home he has gotten alternative out there, yes it is my fault, I was wrong, I pushed him out, can I ever have him again, having tasted a Naughty girl like Chika, how can I match that performance. I cried for hours.

That night my husband did not come home at all, he sent me a Message, “overnight duty at Work” I knew Chika was the overnight duty, I called her she told me he is in her safe hands, that I should not panic, can you imagine? That is my life

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