Steps on how to lose your V-card- I only expected to meet Soren’s parents, not burst into tears. When I was in Junior year at Cornell University, I made peace with my reality. Before then, I had been so excited to experience all of the glamorous, flashy and fun city life that was associated with New York in Hollywood. Hell, every Nigerian that did not have reality brutally slapped across their faces were most certainly fascinated by the idea of the American Dream. However on arriving here, it didn’t take me long to realize that Hollywood tends to romanticize the reality of the situation. I had no idea what was wrong with me, how myopic my thinking was to be honest. I’d been so shocked when I saw a great amount of people struggling to make ends meet because after all, Western media alway