I arrive twenty minutes early for our date. It’s important to get a feel for a place. This is just one reason among many I’m a believer in being early. For one, it’s a strategic move. It puts the person you’re meeting at a disadvantage from the get go. It may be subconscious on their part—but they’re late, even when they’re not—and just like that, already you’re ahead. Always stay two steps ahead. Rudy taught me that. Speaking of staying two steps ahead, you should really give this some thought, and then guys like me wouldn’t have to save your a*s in dark alleys. Jesus, Kate. You’re impulsive, and impulsiveness will either get you caught or dead. I don’t know if our first date is the place to let you in on this, but I know one thing—neither can happen before I’ve seen you n***d. I’ve spe