Keira “Jay, how do you know the right thing to do and say to a girl?” I asked Jay. “Darling, I will let you in on a gay men’s secret powers, we just get you. Look, we know what will look good on you and won’t. If you walked in here with a frizzy 5 color dye job that makes you look like BoBo the clown. I won’t be like your girlfriends lying to you saying how nice it looks. Nope, me, a gay man will say, girl, you look like a clown, we need to fix this. And then I would fix it. Truth is, we get men because we are one and understand how men are. But we also have feelings and love like a woman, so we get you as well.” Jay explained to me. “You are like a woman’s feelings?” I asked him. “Sweetie, trust me I have that fear like you do when I try on clothes and ask if these Jeans make my b