Lesson's on Love

Lesson 2: No means No

Love Lesson 2: No means NO

I have heard a lot of guys be like “Yeashe said no at first, but I knew she really wanted it.”

That pisses me off when we say NO, wemean NO. That doesn’t give you an excuseto try harder. No, we are not just playing hard to get. We don’t like you, weare not ready, or maybe we have someone else. Forcing a girl after she says nois rape plain and simple. Just because we are your girlfriend or wife does notmean we have to put out.

I wish that guys could change rolls with usgirls just once so that they knew how we felt when they just wouldn’t listen. Ihave been there I dated a guy that I thought was a great guy man I was sowrong. He took me to a very romantic dinner and a movie then we went the laketo look at the stars.

I felt so loved when he did all that. He toldme he brought a blanket for us to sit on, so we did. Then he leaned over andkissed me as I kissed him back, he pushed me down and got on top of me. I quickly said NO that I was not ready. He got mad like I owed him for everything hedid that night. He was like quit playinggames you little tease. I was so hurt by this since not once did I do anythingto make him think this was what I wanted. I quickly got up and walked home I called anddumped him because like I said NO means NO and he just didn’t get that.

Ladies you need to know if somethinglike this happens it’s not your fault. You did nothing to bring this on. Wehave a right to change our minds and say no. Men you also have a right to sayno and yes this also happens to men as well. When anyone says NO, it means Noif that person doesn’t take no for an answer they don’t love you or respect youand they shouldn’t be a part of your life.