Chapter Thirteen Sexual Harasser Tom and I remained friends after this. My sister refused to date him, even though he stopped fighting and bullying. He remained arrogant; however, and I realized he was still a bully, although not physically. I have liked him for his qualities as a creative, high performer, but not his tendency to constantly sexually harass female employees and take advantage of them as the senior sales-rep. When the last female marketer, Mary, quit, I decided to call our manager, Fred. Careful not to criticize Tom, I told him I understood Tom had requested a more mature woman. I said I would add that she should also be competitive and assertive, not only to sell, but to fit in with our ‘office style’. I could make such suggestions as Fred liked my work and saw me as a