THE POWER OF TRUE LOVE THAT CONQUER

THE POWER OF TRUE LOVE THAT CONQUER. ÇONTINUE

CHAPTER 17

DADY TELL HIS SON ABOUT

RELATIONSHIP THAT MATTERS REGARDING MARRIAGE.

At office,Dr. Peter sat at his desk in his office, a weary expression etched on his face. He had just ended a long and difficult day of surgeries, and he was mentally and physically exhausted. As he sat there, contemplating the events of the day, his phone rang, interrupting his thoughts.

He picked up the phone and saw that it was his father calling. Dr. Peter's father was a wise and kind man, and he always had a way of soothing his son's troubled mind. Dr. Peter answered the phone, his tired voice cracking as he spoke.

Hello, Dad, he said wearily.

Peter, my boy, how are you? his father's voice came through the phone, warm and comforting.

I'm tired, Dad. It's been a long day, Dr. Peter replied, rubbing his temples.

I know, son. I know. But I need to talk to you about something important. Can you come over to my house tonight? It's urgent, his father said, his voice grave.

Dr. Peter felt a pang of concern in his chest. His father rarely sounded so serious. Of course, Dad. I'll be there as soon as I can.

A few hours later, Dr. Peter found himself sitting across from his father in the living room of his childhood home. The room was warm and inviting, the air filled with the scent of his mother's favorite flowers. Dr. Peter's father sat in his favorite armchair, a solemn expression on his face.

Peter, I need to talk to you about relationships, his father began, his voice low and steady.

Dr. Peter raised an eyebrow in surprise. Relationships, Dad? What about them?

His father sighed deeply before continuing. I want to talk to you about the women in your life, son. I want to talk to you about the kind of woman you should be looking for.

Dr. Peter listened intently as his father spoke about the importance of finding a woman who was kind, caring, and loving. He talked about the value of patience and understanding in a relationship, about the need for mutual respect and support.

And Peter, his father said, his voice tinged with sadness, I want to show you something. He got up from his chair and walked over to a cabinet, pulling out a small, yellowed envelope.

This is a letter from your grandfather, his father said, handing the envelope to Dr. Peter. He wrote it to me when I was about to marry your mother. He told me to be a man of patience and understanding, to never let money be the sole focus of my relationship.

Dr. Peter took the letter from his father, his hands trembling slightly. He opened it and began to read the words written in his grandfather's neat handwriting. The words spoke of love and devotion, of the importance of putting family first, of cherishing the bond between husband and wife.

As Dr. Peter read the letter, tears filled his eyes. He realized that his father was trying to impart a valuable lesson to him, a lesson that he knew was important for his son to learn.

Thank you, Dad, Dr. Peter whispered, his voice choked with emotion. Thank you for showing me this.

His father smiled warmly at him and placed a hand on his shoulder. Remember, Peter, relationships are not about money or material things. They are about love and understanding, about patience and forgiveness. Find a woman who shares these values, and you will find true happiness.

Dr. Peter nodded, his heart filled with gratitude for his father's wisdom. He knew that he would take his father's words to heart, that he would strive to be the kind of man his grandfather had written about in that letter.

LETTER TO MY BROTHER BEFORE MARRIAGE

Dated 30 12 1935

Dear Son,

As you about to marry your wife, always love your wife and she will surbmete to you. That is how marriage can work. When you are angry don't talk to her that particular time, cool your temper before you talk or correct your wife.

just you shouldn't forget in your life to time. These are what you need to hearing, learn, know and understand very well before you get married. Marriage is not just I love you, there are many responsibility that attached to marriage because men are very clear thinker.

You must be an open minded person, don't be a lier in your relationship and marriage. don't be useless Like tissue paper, don't be time waster and helpless man to your spouse, Be a close friend to your wife. Don't start create series of excuses to be a man that is not responsible. Excuses is not a good attitude for a man.

if you are transparent, wide open minded, tested and trusted to your wife, She won't cheat on you or toy with your emotions.She will straight forward with you, any time, any day and she will stand by you, but the movement you do other wise, you will see other side of woman. she will do anything to bring you down and put you to shame in the present of your family.

Always give your wife money, 💰 ego, kudi and Owo anytime. As a man now don't trying to have side chicks or married another woman when you have a beautiful one at home. unless she left you to your Faith.

Always give your wife bedroom injection, it's is very important in relationship to give her bedroom injection and they are three things hidden under relationship and marriage, money, communication and others.

Your Faithfully

Dr john Aderemi

As he left his father's house that night, Dr. Peter felt a renewed sense of purpose and determination. He knew that he would be patient and understanding with his future wife, that he would treasure her and their relationship above all else.

And as he drove home, the words of his father and his grandfather echoed in his mind, filling him with hope and inspiration for the future. Dr. Peter knew that he was ready to embark on a new chapter of his life, one filled with love, understanding, and true happiness. And he would always be grateful to his father for showing him the way.

After the his was talk father to father relationship, Dr Aderemi shown his son the letter his father wrote and sent to him then. This is the letter, this letter senior you, just go through the letter your self.

Dr Peter also explain, FACTS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS.

Sleeping alone is better than sharing your BED with someone who shares a BED with someone else when you are not around.

Cheating does not mean you have to kiss, meet, or have s*x with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting texts and e-mails so that your partner will not see them, you are already there.

If a man is crazy about you, pray he does not get well, if he is getting well, know that another woman is giving him some tablets.

First love may not die, but true love can bury it.

If you still believe "LOVE IS BLIND" then I know for sure MARRIAGE WILL OPEN IT FOR YOU.

A woman's beautiful face attracts a flirt; A woman's beautiful heart attracts a lover; A woman's beautiful character attracts a man.

Never fall in love because you are lonely, fall in love because you are ready.

A blessed water is better than a cursed fried rice. A Godly poor man is far better than an angry rich man in marriage.

I would rather have you stay in your father's house that you are sure of than pack into a man's house you are not sure of.

Most men base their capacity for manhood and their abilities to fertilize ovaries and produce children. Any man can impregnate a woman.

The real deal is HOW MANY MEN CAN BE THE FATHER TO THEIR CHILDREN, not promoters of ABORTION?

HOLY Wives do not just speak in tongues, they MANAGE their homes, make SUPER meals, raise GODLY kids, and finally they

bring out the KING in their man.

When you tend to your garden diligently you will be the one to reap the fruit of the vine thereof.

You can say "sorry" a million times, say "I love you" as much as you want, and say whatever you want, but if you are not going to prove that the things you say are true, then do not say anything at all. Because if you cannot show it, your words do not mean a thing.

Never lie to satisfy somebody for a moment, because the pain that you cause them in the future can last forever.

My son realize that their some, PEOPLE YOU SHOULD NOT MARRY

√ SOMEONE YOU FEAR

1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love cast out fear

You're in a Relationship with someone, and their presence intimidates/scares you, they even INTENTIONALLY scare you via words and actions, you can't express your mind before them out of fear.

This isn't a RELATIONSHIP but A BONDAGE SHIP

Run oh.

√ SOMEONE YOU CAN'T/DON'T TRUST

If they keep breaking your trust, or for TANGIBLE reasons, you can't and don't trust them with your financial secrets, emotional secrets, then why marry em?

They won't even let you even hold their phone, be wise oh.

Someone you can't trust with your Life ain't someone you should Marry. E go choke.

√ SOMEONE THAT ISN'T PROUD OF YOU.

For whatever reason, maybe for financial reasons, the job you do, or your family background, or a physical disability maybe, no matter what, you deserve Love, and should be with someone that is proud of you.

A person who is ashamed of you, doesn't want to be seen with you in public except in private doesn't actually Love You.

Marriage to such persons will only be full of heartache, disrespect and abuse.

√ SOMEONE YOU CAN'T PLAY WITH

I always tell people jokingly, "Don't marry someone you can't call bighead"

Don't marry someone you can't joke and have fun with.

What is Marriage without Fun?

Miscarriage.

Even God laughs.

√ SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T FEAR GOD

The Fear of God above all things will constrain a Man or Woman to always be nice no matter the TEMPTATION or PROVOCATION.

Fear anybody that doesn't Fear God.

If you truly value your life and wellbeing, the fear of God is one very important factor you must look out for in anybody you want to marry, not just a fine face and body.

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE

√ When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband

√ When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband

√ When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances

√ When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meetings

√ When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend

√ When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood

√ When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband

√ When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him

√ When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly

√ When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time

√ When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids

√ When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments

√ When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband

√ When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves

√ When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband

√ When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty

√ When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her

√ When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together

Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.

Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN MARRIAGE -

Proverbs 31:10 - 31💛

Hiterto, Dr Peter's father also advice all men on liability lady's.

To All Men should, Stop Dating a Liability !

A girl who doesn't have transport fare to visit someone that she claims she love. (liability)

A lady who can't get you birthday or valentine gift but expect you to bring down the world for her during hers.

(liability)

Someone who can't comfortably call you on the phone for 5 minutes.

Always flashing, complaining and requesting for data and airtime...(liability)

I wonder how some Men cope with ladies that think a relationship is an occupation where she's supposed to be paid and taken care of??

(S*x is not a benefit to only men, such a girl is a (liability).

Stop dating a liability no matter how beautiful she is.

Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content!

Date a lady who can add something meaningful to your life. Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

Date someone who's capable of managing multiplying whatever she has and the ones you give to her, your soul will be at peace! Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

I'm not saying she must be rich.

But let her have something doing no matter how little it is because no matter how much money you make, she must be able to assist you during the rainy days...

Two good heads are better than one. Guy's am I speaking your mind?.

Once upon a time in the pass year, Dr Peter.had always been fascinated by the idea of love and relationships, but he had never quite understood how to navigate them successfully. He often found himself tongue-tied when trying to communicate his feelings, and he struggled to connect with others on a deeper level. Expecialy when his in love with queen Adeola.

One day, Peter decided to seek the advice of his father, who was known throughout the land as a wise and compassionate counselor. As Peter sat down with his father in the cozy living room of their quaint cottage, he nervously broached the subject of communication in dating, relationships, and marriage.

His father listened attentively, his kind eyes twinkling with understanding. Ah, communication is indeed a crucial aspect of any relationship, my son, he began. In order to truly connect with another person, you must be able to express your thoughts, feelings, and desires openly and honestly.

Peter nodded, hanging on his father's every word. But how do I do that, Father? he asked earnestly. I always seem to stumble over my words and end up saying the wrong thing.

His father smiled gently. Communication is not just about the words you speak, Peter. It is also about listening, empathy, and understanding. To truly communicate with another person, you must be willing to truly listen to what they have to say, and to try to see things from their perspective.

Peter nodded thoughtfully, a glimmer of understanding dawning in his eyes. So, it's not just about talking, but about truly connecting with the other person, he mused.

His father nodded, his expression proud. Exactly, my son. By learning to communicate effectively, you will be able to build strong, lasting relationships based on trust, mutual respect, and understanding.

As the days passed, Peter put his father's advice into practice. He took the time to really listen to what others had to say, and he made a conscious effort to express his own thoughts and feelings in a clear and honest manner. Slowly but surely, he began to forge deeper connections with those around him, and his relationships blossomed and flourished as a result.

Eventually, Peter met a lovely young Adeola. From their very first meeting with Adeola,, Peter knew that there was something special about her. As they spent more time together, he found himself falling deeper and deeper in love with her. He said that he doesn't want any mistake his marriage.

One evening, as they strolled hand in hand through the enchanted forest that surrounded their village, Peter decided that the time had come to ask Adeola for the second time to be his partner in life. With his heart pounding in his chest, he knelt down on one knee and gazed up at her with adoration in his eyes.

Adeola, my love, he began, his voice trembling with emotion. I have never known anyone as kind, as beautiful, as you. Will you do me the great honor of becoming my wife?

Tears sprang to Adeola's eyes as she gazed down at Peter, her heart overflowing with love for him. Yes, Peter, she whispered, her voice filled with joy. I will be your partner in life, now and forever.

And so, Peter and Adeola were about to get marry very soon in a lavish ceremony that brought together all the creatures of all in celebration. As they danced beneath the stars, Peter knew that he had finally found true happiness, thanks to the power of communication and the wisdom of his father.

From that day forward, Peter and Adeola lived happily ever after, their love growing stronger with each passing year. And whenever they faced challenges or conflicts, they would always remember the importance of communication in their relationship, and they would work together to overcome any obstacles that came their way.

Peter and Adeola s love story became the stuff of legend, a testament to the power of communication, understanding, and true love. And all who heard their tale were inspired to seek out deeper connections with those around them, and to cherish the bonds that made their hearts sing with joy.

After all advice to his son, Dr PETER father round up with another gist to his only son as follows.

Dr Peter's father also address the difference between real love and lost to his son. He said...

Real love is a deep and genuine feeling of affection, care, and respect for someone. It is not just based on physical attraction, but also on a strong emotional connection and understanding between two people. Real love is unconditional and selfless, where one person puts the happiness and well-being of their loved one above their own.

However, despite its beauty, real love can also bring about feelings of loss. This can happen when two people who are deeply in love are separated due to various reasons such as distance, conflicting priorities, or external circumstances. The feeling of loss can also arise when one person in the relationship stops reciprocating the love, leading to a breakup.

Losing real love can be a painful and heartbreaking experience. It can leave a void in one's heart and make them feel incomplete. The memories of the love shared and the moments spent together can be bittersweet, bringing both happiness and sadness. The person who has lost real love may experience a range of emotions such as grief, anger, and loneliness.

The impact of losing real love can be long-lasting and can affect a person's future relationships and their overall outlook on love. It can also lead to self-reflection and growth, as the person tries to understand the reasons for the loss and learns from the experience.

However, even in the midst of the pain and loss, real love can teach valuable lessons and leave lasting memories. It can also pave the way for new beginnings and the possibility of finding real love once again. It is important to remember that while real love may be lost, the love and lessons shared will always remain in the heart.

RELATIONSHIP MATTERS

You live with your wife and the maid. One Saturday morning, your wife goes to the market. A while later, you go to take a bath to go out. The maid also takes the opportunity to go and bath in her own bathroom.

Whilst you two were in your bathrooms, madam comes back home to pick the phone she forgot. Then the doorbell rings. Remember, you are bathing, but didn't know the maid was also taking her bath, so you continue with no worries and your wife was all along on the bell.

Not understanding why the maid is yet to get the door, you tie your towel, your curved tool making a bulge in the towel, you rush out of the bath and head to the door.

Getting to the living room, you find the maid already opening the door with wrapper tied to her chest, sumptuous bossom popping through the lightly wet wrapper tied to her chest, curvaceous buttocks seeming bare in the very light ankara.

Madam enters and sees the maid wet with wrapper tied around her chest, and you, oga (mean man boss), also wet with towel tied around your loins...

Madam looks at you weirdly and asks what was going on, and why it took so long for both of you to show up, in that state, and together.

Now, your wife doesn't know what we know...

With the aid of a graph sheet, Four Figure.

🙄🥺🩷

Cheers 🍾🥂🍎💖

Another few days Dr Peter doesn't regarding himself as a Dr that communication everyday, he know the important of communication to the clients but he still want to learn from his old daddy.

he has narrated his story like these...Dr, Peter's father had been married for sixty five years, and their love for each other was as strong as ever. However, like all couples, they had their fair share of challenges and disagreements.

One day, as they sat by the sparkling river that ran through their village, Peter turned to his father and asked, Father, what is the importance of communication in marriage?

His father, a wise old wizard with a long flowing beard, smiled and replied, Ah, my son, communication is the key to a successful marriage. Without it, misunderstandings can arise, and feelings can be hurt.

Peter nodded thoughtfully, his mind racing with questions. But how do we communicate effectively, Father? Sometimes it feels like Adeola and I are speaking different languages.

The wizard chuckled softly and patted his son on the back. Fear not, my boy. There are many aspects to communication in a marriage, and I am here to guide you.

He then began to explain the different aspects of communication that were crucial in a marriage. First and foremost, honesty is essential. You must always be truthful with each other, even when the truth is hard to hear. Trust is the foundation of any relationship.

Peter listened.

Active listening is another important aspect, the wizard continued. You must truly listen to your partner when they are speaking, without interrupting or thinking about your response. Show empathy and understanding.

As the sun began to set behind the mountains, the wizard talked about the importance of compromise, respect, and patience in communication. Marriage is a partnership, my son. You must work together to find common ground and solutions to your problems. Mutual respect and patience will go a long way in maintaining a healthy relationship.

Peter felt a sense of clarity and understanding wash over him. Thank you, Father. I will remember your words and strive to communicate better with Adeola

As they made their way back to their cottage, Peter vowed to put his father's advice into practice. He sat down with Adeola that evening and opened up a dialogue about their communication in their marriage.

They talked about their feelings, thoughts, and fears in a way they had never done before. They laughed, they cried, and they hugged each other tightly, knowing that they were on the right path to a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.

In the days that followed, Peter and Adeola made a conscious effort to communicate effectively with each other. They set aside time each day to talk, to listen, and to connect on a deeper level. They found that their love for each other only grew stronger as they opened up and shared their innermost thoughts and feelings.

One evening, as they sat Adeola turned to Peter with a smile. Thank you for being so open and honest with me, my love. Our communication has truly brought us closer together

Peter took her hand in his and gazed into her eyes with love and gratitude. I thankful for your patience and understanding, my dear. Our marriage is stronger because of our communication.

And as they embraced each other in a loving embrace, the wizard watched from afar with a knowing smile. He had seen many couples come and go in the enchanted home town but he knew that Peter and Adeola were destined for a lifetime of happiness and love, all because of the power of communication in their marriage.

Dr. Peter had always been close to his mother. Growing up, she had been there for him through every trial and triumph, offering words of wisdom and guidance.

One sunny weekend, Dr. Peter decided to pay a visit to his mother, Mama, he began, I have always looked up to you as a guiding light in my life. You have been there for me through thick and thin, offering me your unwavering support and love. But now, I find myself in need of your wisdom more than ever. Can you tell me the importance of women in the life of a man?

His mother smiled warmly at him, her eyes shining with pride. She took a sip of her wine before setting the glass aside and turning to face him fully.

Peter, my dear son, she began, her voice soft yet filled with conviction, women hold a special place in the heart of a man. They are the ones who nurture and care for him, supporting him in his endeavors and lifting him up when he falls. A woman is a source of strength and inspiration, a pillar of love and compassion. Without a woman by his side, a man is incomplete.

Dr. Peter listened intently as his mother spoke, her words striking a chord deep within his soul. He felt a sense of calm wash over him, knowing that he had come to the right person for guidance.

As they continued their conversation, his mother shared stories of women who had impacted her life in profound ways, shaping her into the person she was today. She spoke of her own mother, a strong and resilient woman who had taught her the value of hard work and perseverance. She spoke of her friends, who had stood by her through thick and thin, offering their love and support unconditionally.

As the sun began to set, casting long shadows across the lawn, Dr. Peter felt a sense of clarity and purpose wash over him. He had come to his mother seeking answers, and she had given him so much more than he could have ever hoped for. She had reminded him of the importance of women in his life, and he vowed to cherish and honor them always.

Before he left, Dr. Peter knelt before his mother, taking her hands in his own. Thank you, Mama, for your words of wisdom and love. I will carry them with me always, remembering the important role that women play in shaping the world around us.

His mother smiled tearfully at him, her heart overflowing with pride. You have grown into a fine young man, Peter, she said, her voice filled with emotion. I am so proud of the person you have become, and I know that you will make a difference in the world with your kind heart and compassionate soul.

With a final embrace, Dr. Peter bid his mother farewell, his heart filled with gratitude and love. As he walked back to his own home, he knew that he carried with him a newfound understanding of the importance of women in the life of a man. And he vowed to never forget the lessons his mother had imparted to him that day, knowing that her wisdom would guide him on his journey through life.

Dr Peter also called his mother for advice and she said my son

Unconditional love: A mother’s love for her children is unconditional and knows no bounds. This love is crucial in a child’s life as it provides them with a sense of security and belonging.

Nurturing and care: Mothers are often the primary caregivers in a child’s life, providing them with physical, emotional, and mental care. This nurturing and care are essential for a child’s healthy development.

Role model: Mothers serve as role models for their children, shaping their behaviors, beliefs, and values. Children often imitate their mother’s actions and learn important life skills from them.

Emotional support: Mothers are always there to provide emotional support and comfort to their children.They listen to their problems, offer advice, and give them a sense of reassurance.

Teaching life skills: From a young age, mothers teach their children important life skills such as communication, problem-solving, and self-care. These skills are crucial for a child’s growth and development.

Source of knowledge and wisdom: Mothers are often a source of knowledge and wisdom for their children.

Advocate and protector: Mothers are fierce advocates and protectors of their children. They stand up for their children’s rights, ensure their safety, and protect them from harm.

Source of inspiration: A mother’s love, dedication, and sacrifice can be a great source of inspiration for her children. They learn to work hard, persevere, and never give up from their mother’s example.