Jill “Why does it feel like a but is in that sentence?” I asked Eric. “I don’t want to ruin what we have. I don’t want to sleep with you because emotions get involved then our friendship gets affected.” Eric said. I sighed, “Where is this conversation coming from? Why now are you telling me this?” “The guys, they noticed us, ok.” Eric said as he looked away from me. “Oh, I get it now. Am I attracted to you? Yes, I am, do I fantasise about you? Yes, I do what I love to be in a relationship with you yes but I’m not gonna force a relationship on you. I’d rather it happen naturally you are totally football and I get that. Have I ever once forced myself on you?” I asked him. “No, I didn’t mean to imply that.” He said. “ Eric, I don’t know where you thought this conversation was gonna g