Tats Truth time, never once in my life had I ever considered having children. In fact, chances are if any of the women I have been with ever came to me and said they were pregnant or that I am the dad of their child, I would have been that guy that said it wasn't mine. I would have been the guy that would fight it to the bitter end claiming the child wasn't mine. Unlike my brother, who dreamed of being a father and having a big family, I never wanted kids. I never wanted a child to be subjected to the kind of life I had. I never wanted a kid who could end up in the system if something happened to their mother and me. I never wanted to be responsible for another life. I barely did well enough to take care of myself. So I won't lie when I say my first instinct to finding a positive preg