Chapter Ten
Using technology as an assist in SB can be highly effective,
as this narrator illustrates.
Mandy - video & pictures
If it wasn't for having video cam, I doubt that I'd be as enthusiastic about SB as I am. The fact is that I enjoy seeing myself tied up probably more than the actually tying. Over the last few years, I have found this to be more erotically rewarding than anything else I do sexually. If I can venture a sort of rationalization here, it's a lot safer than getting picked up in a bar or at the library and having to wade through the complications of getting to know and trust someone only to discover that he's gay, married or nuts.
SB is quiet and safe. Within normal boundaries, there isn't much I cannot do for myself without the risk of STDs, violence, a confrontat
