AUTHOR
BY
OLAYINKA EMMANUEL DADA
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
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APPRECIATION
I appreciation the present of God in my life for given me opportunity to write this beautiful book.
This is a very special package and landmark in our history. I am delighted that you will accept my innovation. Thank you for being a part of our remarkable story.
I also appreciate my Daddy who stood by me always by name CHIEF J. O.DADA. And my two Daughters Victoria and Grace Dada.
THANKS, GOD WILL BLESS YOU ALL
MARRIAGE
Marriage, a timeless institution, is the beautiful journey of two lives woven together, each thread representing shared dreams, laughter, and the promise of tomorrow.
It’s a commitment beyond words, a journey filled with moments that define a lifetime. Marriage is not just a contract; it’s a shared adventure where love is the compass, understanding is the map, and trust is the guiding star.
if you wonder, what is marriage, it’s an embrace of both calm seas and stormy weather, a sanctuary for vulnerability and strength. Join us in exploring the essence of marriage – a celebration of partnership, companionship, and a love story that never truly ends.
WHAT IS MARRIAGE?
What does marriage mean? Marriage is the mix of love and a heartfelt commitment between two people who promise to stand by each other through life’s journey. It’s the union of hearts, a bond that goes beyond friendship, making two souls partners for life.
INTRODUCTION
True relationship it's a small thing to a man but to a woman it's deep things,
Marriage is most delicate aspect of life, if someone mistakely married wrong personality being male or female, it's will be very difficult to correct or reverse back. Marriage is different from educational because in education, You will collect certificate after every stages of education examination in different stages but while when get married we will collect certificate before going to marriage that make it different from school or education.
Marriage is a teacher. its will teach you right sence of life, Your life experience about marriage is different from each other's, what happened to my uncle in marriage was far different from what happens to my marriage, the difference was clear, At time it's may be experience of different behaviors from boths spouse. it's may be different in ideaology, it's may be finance Challenges, it's may be birth Challenges, it's may be accademy difficult, it's may health issues . it's very deeper and unthinkable for any human being. I think it's all about closed to God Almighty because we can't achieve anything without Him.
In generally, in the world, alots of broken home, broken marriage and broken relationship among the youths marriages today's , They are many steps involved before a spouse will have a successful marriage today.
Woman are wise Master builder, what you do in the present of children will be definitely reflection in life your children, the life of children is like a Black paper what ever you write on its will definitely reflexed in the life of your children in future.
A lot's of woman doesn't know the size of their white house or their power house, what do I mean by white house or power house, I am refer to their Virginia, their 4 types firstly, the tight one , second one deep etc some husband doesn't know the size of their white house and this one cause broke home atime.
LOVE 💕 IS VALUABLE AND KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP SECRETS SAFE ARE DIFFERENT THINGS, Read it inside my ebooks.
woman why did you send your sister or your pretty friend or coursin to your man's house, Remember that keeping yams and he-goat together, don't you think that 🐐 he-goat will eat up yam.At the end of the day you will begin to crying.
And always keep your relationship stuff safety custody because there are different things.
MAN FEAR WOMAN
Woman are the light of family and when light die children and husband suffer defeat. Such husband can't never replace such woman. Her family can't replace her expecialy when she is a bread winner.
Woman's heart is as deep as occasion of water.she can keep secrets for life.
if woman can keep secrets in her belly as well as keeping pregnancy for good nine months it's doesn't take woman anything to keep deep secrets till she enter her grave.
Remember that woman keep deep secrets with their mother and their friends but when they have little misunderstanding with their friends all the world will know what at stake for years.
Do you believe that woman can keep deep secrets for More than one hundred years without refills it to anyone.
Woman are secretive in nature in reaction from man's talk, woman are breadwinner to the family at time. Please man fear woman.
Do you know that the virginal of a woman determine by their 👃 nose. and it's of four types. Man go and do your research.
DEAR LADIES,
THINGS MEN WANT FROM WOMEN IN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE
PEACE
One of the greatest thing you can give a Man isn't your Body, but Peace of mind.An atmosphere where he'll find happiness, a place he can relax and think, plan and reach out to conquer his world and fulfill his purpose from, without stress, constant nagging, and problems.If you can't give him peace, leave him to find someone who can.
UNDERSTANDING
He wants you to understand him To understand his CAPACITY (financially for example) and manage with him, and not make demands way past it.To under
-stand his NATURE (temperament, likes, dislikes), and know how to blend/flow with him peacefully.To understand his CALLING, and know how to support him to fulfill it, and not fight it.An understanding Woman captures the heart and kidney of her Man.
ENCOURAGEMENT
He may not say it, but he looks to you for encouragement daily. Your words mean a lot to him."honey, I know you're trying, I love You" "I see the sacrifice you're making for us and our future, thank you" "baby, you can do it, you can get it done, things may not be as you want them now, but I'm with you"Men love and cherish a Woman who encourages them to success.
RESPECT
Calm down first, Before you get offended, You yourself, don't you want respect? So what are we not saying.?
No Man wants to marry a second Mother, or an Elder Sister in context of authority. TREAT him with respect as you'd he do to you.TALK to him with Respect (publicly and privately) Honor and Respect him as you do your Pastor.
AFFECTION & CARE
A Man wants to be treated like a baby by his Woman, few ever admit it. Men also want to be pampered, and taken care of. He wants you to take care of him..
Men are very weak in this area, that's why most Men don't joke with their mothers, the first Woman to take care of them.Be there for him to make sure he eats, even if you're not the one currently cooking for him, still urge him to eat..
LETTER TO MY BROTHER BEFORE MARRIAGE
Dear Brother,,
just you shouldn't forget in your life to time. These are what you need to hearing, learn, know and understand very well before you get married. Marriage is not just I love you, there are many responsibility that attached to marriage because men are very clear thinker.
You must be an open minded person, don't be a lier in your relationship and marriage. don't be useless Like tissue paper, don't be time waster and helpless man to your spouse, Be a close friend to your wife. Don't start create series of excuses to be a man that is not responsible. Excuses is not a good attitude for a man.
if you are transparent, wide open minded, tested and trusted to your wife, She won't cheat on you or toy with your emotions.She will straight forward with you, any time, any day and she will stand by you, but the movement you do other wise, you will see other side of woman. she will do anything to bring you down and put you to shame in the present of your family.
Always give your wife money, 💰 ego, kudi and Owo anytime. As a man now don't trying to have side chicks or married another woman when you have a beautiful one at home. unless she left you to your Faith.
Always give your wife bedroom injection, it's is very important in relationship to give her bedroom injection and they are three things hidden under relationship and marriage, money, communication and others.
Your Faithfully
Your Big Brother
AS A MAN
As a man you needs to know their three to seven types of women in the world you needs to know before going into marriage.As a real mature man did you know the size of your wife white house or power house, this are the things you needs to know, did you know you woman's weakness? One types of woman's trick and traps that was packed inside this ebook
TABLE TO CONTENTS
√ INTRODUCTION
(A)
(ALL ABOUT WOMAN)
√ WHO ARE THE WOMAN?
√ A WOMAN MUST BEAUTIFUL IN THE FOUR PLACES.
√ DEEP RESEARCH ABOUT THE SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE.
√ ROMANCE THINGS TO DO THAT DOESN'T INVOLVE s*x.
√ TYPES OF of WIFE'S WE HAVE IN OUR SOCIETY.
√ SECRETS ABOUT WOMAN.
√ MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE.
√ FACTS ABOUT RELATIONSHIP.
√ SIX TYPES OF WOMAN IN THE WORLD
√ DAIRIES OF DIFFERENT LOVERS AND READ MANY LIFE SHORT STORIES HERE.
√ WHY WOMAN CHEAT ?
√ LOVE 💕 IS VALUABLE AND KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP SECRETS SAFE ARE DIFFERENT THINGS,
√ WOMAN HOW TO SECURED YOUR MAN?
(B)
(ALL ABOUT MAN)
√ WHO IS A MAN
√ THREE TYPES OF MAN IN THE WORLD
√ SECRETS OF MAN'S HEART
√ ALL MEN MUST KNOW HOW TO SELL.
√ WHY MAN CHEAT?
✓ HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE. READ THESE AWESOME LIFE TIPS.
.✓ DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE.?
EPISODE 1
WHO ARE THE WOMAN ?
A woman is an adult female human. Before adulthood, a female child or adolescent is referred to as a girl. Typically, women are of the female s*x and inherit a pair of X chromosomes, one from each parent, and fertile women are capable of pregnancy and giving birth from puberty until menopause.
Female person who plays a significant role (wife or mistress or girlfriend) in the life of a part woman play 9 good role behind a man as daughter, wife, mother, sister, Mother-in-law, Aunty, Ground mothers and etc.
Women are soft minded and straight forward people. Woman are met to love not to be beaten by men , woman come for man to confront and relief man, they are very pretty babe beautiful and pleasant set of people,
Women are in different ideaology and in different sizes Some are very discipline, taught, rough and simple depends on lady.
I personally called woman as executive on earth, You have to know the key of woman, Woman always breadwinner of the family at time they hardly forget their parents, I referred them as angles on earth, woman play nine good roles behind the man . If you now please tell me how, woman are social actor of change.
A woman is such a school you will never graduate from, They don't forget their father.
√ Woman are pioneer of change
√ woman are facilitator of life on earth because they partner with God as regarding born of baby to this world.
√ woman are the wise master builder
√ woman are professional Listener
√ woman are key to Sustainable development and quality life in the family but when woman die children suffer defeat.
√ woman are social able
√ woman are professional motivator, they motivate and engineer rooms behind family.
√ At time women are 🍞 breadwinner of the family
√ woman play key roles as CEO , leaders and in high profile in a nation
√ woman education are imparactive to the or impressive as a careers for woman is a more no TABOOS, we felt their presents.
Women are pretty beautifully and gorgeous set of people around us, woman are loveable ❤️ and entertainers in their own way. Woman are of different sizes, colour with different ideas.
A WOMAN MUST BEAUTIFUL IN FOUR PLACES
4 Places for woman to be beautiful.
√ A WOMAN MUST FACIALLY BEAUTIFUL
√ A WOMAN MUST BEAUTIFUL IN HER HAND, SHE MUST BE A DIGNITY OF LABOUR
√ SHE MUST BEAUTIFUL IN HER CHARACTER
√ SHE MUST BEAUTIFUL IN HER WHITE HOUSE.
Firstly
√ A WOMAN MUST FACIALLY BEAUTIFUL.
A woman most beautiful FACIALLY to actracting a good man, If not she must be very intelligent, if not she will have a problems in life.
Secondly
√ A WOMAN MUST BEAUTIFUL IN HER HAND,
She must beautiful in har hand work, what do I meant. A lady must be dignity of labour. She must not reline on her physically beautiful and Power house only to get her meals everyday.
Thirdly
√ SHE MUST BEAUTIFUL IN HER CHARACTER.
A lady must beautiful in her character, it is better to check the complements and character of a lady before she can be a good friends. A woman characters must be one hundred percent If not she will not get a right man to marry . There are different between characters and temperamental. A lady's attitude must be one hundred and it's key to female relationship and marriage.
FORTHLY
√ SHE MUST BEAUTIFUL IN HER WHITE HOUSE
A matured Lady must beautiful in her white house, what do I mean a woman must beautiful in her power house, when I was younger date a lady,
For instance years back, l left a beautiful matured lady that Year because she was not not beautiful in her Virginia, the place was just like someone used tin-cutters cut peak milk tin, it so painful that day. I want to marry her but gotten to her power house, it's was very disgusting and spoiled place not good enough for me and that is the end of game they year . A lot of females as lost their original man because of that loss of white house or power house.
DEEP RESEARCH OF SUCCEFUL MARRIAGE
A lot's of people woman don't know their size of their white house. The size of woman can know by their nose, as a woman don't allows man that is not your husband place with your nose, that woman nose was the one that will give you as a man the size of your woman, when a lady has very small nose that mean the particular Virginia was very Small and tight, but a person with big nose says a lot's about the woman, that means her Virginia was very bigger.
What do means by White house?some man don't known how to flog their woman in their white house very well, some men will just sleeping like cidal 🌲 tree after work at time. They don't know what to with their wife instead to goes to bed room and give your wife bedroom injunction, what do I mean give your wife good s*x if not, it's is a a little spark that cause a lots of broken home broken relationship and broken marriage.
A man who doesn't give his wife bed room injunction every well to satisfy her, she will not talk to you, she will just go outside to have a good s*x outside.
Another man outside home with sharp pencil will fire figure your wife, at the end of the day break home will occurs later when she enjoys out home than insides.
If you a man and woman you have to read this ebook, it's took me more than four and half years to gather this information
A you a woman this is a read ebook for you, as a woman did you know that men are of three types in the world, the hunter, the carpenter and guardian or gardener in the world.
Alots of woman don't know types of man in the world that create a lot's of broken marriage. Alots of woman doesn't know the size of their man or husband. Men have four types of man hood. The long one, short one , the thick one and extras tick and long one . All this create broken home.
Woman remember that men are very logical in nature. As a young female if a man propose to you before accepted his proposal you have to know all this information, remember that information bering transformation, if you are not informed you will deformed.
WOMAN ARE JEWELRY
Woman are soft minded set of people in the world as a man don't break the heart of woman because they are unavoidable and indispensable personality in this world.
TALKING ABOUT SHAPE.
Women are of different sizes, colour high and different faces hmmm I can seeing alots different faces in all over the world. When I was in school, I have met with different sizes, faces shape , high and colour being gold, black, yellow etc.
If you know that you don't needs her minds or in marriage please don't play with her mind set.
TALKING ABOUT SENSITIVE
Women are more sensitive and sensible in nature, and most woman keep secrets with their mother and their friends, when their is miss understanding between them all the deep secrets will refill to the whole world.
Man don't turn your wife to punching bag, don't beat woman she came for your comfort don't maltreat her, so as a man take care of her because she is not your slave , pampered her, nurtured her and give her s*x , in her power house regularly. Give her money, money, money, and take care of your children.
Always remember that money can remove under ware from woman bottom. I know what am saying.
Money 💰 is the key to remove under ware from woman.
Woman like sweet ❤️ story and foods, woman's hand are different in prepare of foods, in soups with different taste
ROMANTIC THINGS TO DO THAT DON'T INVOLVE SEX
When romance is often mentioned, many think it is all about s*x. But romance is actually anything you do to your partner that communicate and show that him/her is special to you. Here are a few examples.
Calling your partner a special name that you wouldn't call any other person such "Honey", "Sweetheart"
Cooking together. This activity actually gives you two a chance to bond closer
Going out on dates to intimate places (not clubs) where you can look into each other's eyes and have heart to heart conversations
Pulling up her seat or holding her hand when she climbs up a stair case. Even though she can do this on her own, this makes her feel like you are mindful of her
Singing love songs together. This warms the heart
Covering each other in prayer. The most romantic thing is taking care of each other's spirit
Holding each other's hand as you walk.
Going out for walks, picnics and plays
If you have children, planning dates just for you two as you make plans for someone to take care of the kids. Children tend to kill romance if you are not deliberate about maintaining the fire
Talking on the phone till late about heart matters if you two are far from each other. If all you talk about till late is s*x then you are missing out on depth
Writing each other love letters. Yes, there is something special about reading each other's handwriting in this digital age. Leave a note for your partner on the pillow or post a letter if your partner is far away
Making him a warm drink as he works or going to see him with packed lunch. This shows that you have him in mind
Sending a parcel. There is something special about opening up a physical gift from the one you love
Praising each other publicly, whether in front of your friends, on social media or in social gatherings. But do this only when you love your partner well in private, otherwise it is just pretense
Writing each other poems, love songs or warm messages of how much you mean to each other
Sitting next to each other in church services as you read from the same Bible
Talking with your child/children about how you two met. Children love those stories of mom and dad. This reminds you two of how far your love has come
Wishing each other a good night and a good morning. Simple words but they mean alot
Having pillow talks on your marriage bed as you cuddle and be vulnerable with each other
Remember that is your life partner. Do and say things that communicate love. If you two are dating and your coming together is because of s*x, then you are missing out on a chance to build on a strong foundation on which your future will be built.
If you two are married and you stopped making each other feel special especially since the children came, or the only time you pay attention to each other is when you want s*x then you are weakening your marriage. Bring true romance back.
TYPES OF WIVES WE HAVE IN OUR SOCIETIES
1. BOXING WIVES : These are the type of wives that fight with their husbands deliberately just to provoke him to anger. These kind of women are ready to fight with the husband mostly in the public area to create a scene.
2. HEADMASTER WIVES :
These are the wives that are well paid in either their career or business but they disrespect and put their husband down because they have the financial edge over their husbands.
3. POLICE WIFE :
This type is very common. These are the wives that inspect or police their husbands every where they go. When the husband goes to the bathroom they pick up his phone to quickly check his messages.
If the husband makes a call they hide behind the door to listen to every conversation...If the husband goes out they make sure he is followed and has friends that keep an extra eye on the husband activities.
4. DICTIONARY WIFE :
These are the wives that don't listen to the advise of their husband but rather they prefer to listen to their mother or sister or friend.
Whenever their husband says something, they quickly go to verify from either the mother, sister, friend e.t.c like a dictionary to know if she should go ahead with what their husband instructed or not.
5. PARTY WIVES :
They prefer to buy every available handbag and shoe to attend any available party even though her family does not have the financial muscle to entertain such expenses.They are readily available at every party and drink at thereby neglecting their children, husband and home..
6. PAMPERED WIVES :
These are also known as daddy's little girl...They call and report their husband to their father at any slight argument or conversation. The rich ones are highly dangerous especially when the husband is working directly for the father..
7. DUSTBIN WIVES ;
The name might sound harsh but they exist...These wives leave the home unkept and dirty and you only see them rushing to clean the house only when they have a visitor at the door...There are several occasions were some husbands get home after a days work only to find the house upside down and dirty.
8. GOD FEARING WIVES :
They are caring and loving. Provides emotional needs and creates extra time for family. Guides home spiritually, Very responsible and treats husband and family with respect.
9. FACE BOOK WIVES :
They are always on the internet, i********:, posting pictures with twisted legs, chatting and even forget to do basic shores because they want to know what is happening on sss.
10. Unappreciated Wives:
These are wives who stay home and take care of everything and everybody but are treated like children. Seen and not heard.. So for the ladies which one are you and for the guys which one do you currently have...Kindly go through so that you can work on yourself if need be.
A woman will gladly stay with a rich stingy man than be with a poor generous man.
Understand this.
Women are creatures of fantasies, money has 80% of the power to fulfill their fantasies.
So a man with money don't necessarily have to give them money to make them love him and stay, this women will willingly stay with such men based on hope that he will give them money one day.
They will even be under pressure to do things and things for him just to please him so they can have access to his money...
The funny thing is that, they will bitterly complain that he is stingy, he doesn't take care of them blablabla but still they won't go anywhere, they will continue to love him and do his bidding.
This is the most potent way to keep women when you have money, they will be attracted by your money but then to keep them you must not give them the access they want to your money, you need to frugal with your money.
She will value you more when she needs your money but can't have access to it cheaply.
The day you start making her comfortable with your finances, fulfilling her wishes and desires, that's the day you will start loosing your relevance.
Because what's keeping her, she now have it, so why should she stay or do what she use to do to have them before?
Its a simple logic.
Most importantly.
Never go broke trying to please, support or impress a woman, you will regret it with your life, the only reason why she is not showing you her true colors is simply because your money is still intact, if you eventually lose it, you will lose her..
Be wise.
Your money is your edge, protect it, she will stay with you even when you are stingy but then she knows that you have the money, she will even respect you more but what women can never do is to stay with you when you are poor, she will hardly respect.
UNDERSTAND THE TRUE LAWS OF LOVE 💕 AND RELATIONSHIP
Love is not blind this day. love was blind in the olden days , love is all about beautiful heart not face, right now you have to open up wide your eyes.
I know that I am not the only your toaster, now love is all about money and money only, it's care about money and money and property only but love is all about making you happier, conducive and secured.
Did you understand that there are five laws of life
✓ LAWS of mercy and money
✓ Laws of humility for both spouse
✓ Laws of love and acceptance
✓ Laws of faith and believe
✓ Laws of risk takers.
Those laws are the laws you have to understand before going to real relationship or another relationship, you might met with sugar coated personality rhen you must think alone those laws.
Remember that life is all about love happeness, endurance and cares. love can't stand with those four things love is not blind this day.
love was blind before but right now you have to open your eyes right to know the kinds of the persons attitude you want to deal with.
inclusion only money can't survive the real relationship, their are three things hidden under relationship love and marriage.
✓ Communication
✓ Money 💰
✓ Sex
one must not missing, if one missing then their is bond to breakup in such relationship.
Remember that anything breakdown in communication their is bond will be break up. This point is one of the one that hold up the relationship, when the communication stopped the relationship on money and s*x will stop , and as far their is no communication then everything will break up
Lack of money will also caused the break up
Sex is the last one, when their is no communication at home then their is no s*x again because everything 🌟 started from communication at the beginning.
Relationship is not about religion, it's all about feelings and affection, always think about it, I have seening two lovers manage from different religions peacefully without any problem, I personality asked my boss about it he said that at home they don't discuss religion in their relationship
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