“Yeah, well how about thinking about being her?”
“Being her? You mean you being your partner?”
“Yes. That’s the real fantasy…since we’re using that term.”
“Can you explain that?”
“I see a pretty woman, one who I find attractive, and I think about what it would be like to be like her. To be her. I think about dressing so that I look like her.”
“Okay. I understand. But consider what you just said. If you carry that fantasy out, wouldn’t you essentially be having s*x with yourself?”
“Yes. I suppose so, when you put it that way.”
“Well, that is still in the range of the work many counselors do. They can help you with makeup, dressing, shopping and appearing in public with a close friend. Some can even provide a male or female body guard discreetly, so that you will not have to worry abo
