23 Haven My cousins had really gotten me to thinking. Not about the rebound s*x with Wick, but the closure I needed with Topher. Even though my checkup at the health center on Friday had been, you know, no fun at all, I had felt a certain relief after it, a weight lifted from my shoulders. I think it was because I’d been proactive and actually gone out and done something in response to my breakup. So, wanting to do more and clean my slate completely so I could move on, I decided to visit my ex that night and return everything that belonged to him, along with things he’d given me over the years that he may or may not want back. I paced the front room of my new apartment until Wick came home, opening the door and pausing when he saw me hovering. “You’re home,” I announced the obvious.