does or do u think love as a stage??‍♀??‍♀I don't think love is like a life cycle of any insect,,,before it becomes adult ?

A little girl puzzled about or with the right stage to define the word love💖💖I think love is like a mistake,,,u commit it and u realize later that your a victim 🤦🏼‍♀🤦🏼‍♀Its worth writing that some people never understand this🥶🥶my heart is in pain because many people think that love is a desire yet the innocent word love is just a feeling😏😏Many think that there is a right time to fall in love💑💑But I disagree with them,,,take an example I think many of us have trees🎋🎋 or any plant surrounding us ,,,,now the trees(people) and the wind (love)🥰🥰Have u ever observed that every time the wind blows,,,,the trees shake a little😉😉and when it is too much the trees get over excited and fall down ,,,,,,this may be a story of disgrace to my beloved parents ,,,,,But dear parents you are our trunks to resist us from falling however much the wind tries to blow us away ,,,,Before I continue any further 😎😎 who has never been in love before ,,,at least even the nuns are in love qith the Christ ,,,,Love is the worst thing that has ever happened to me ,,,,love is so so powerful powerful than any human beings ,,,,,,if u doubt me go make some little research about the hostile humans that ever existed and check whether they had never fallen in love ,,,,,From Uganda there is a live example of Amin Dada,,,even to date the number of wives he had is not yet known ,,,despite his cruelity ,agony and hostility he still fell in love ,,,,So do u still think love has a right stage if so the agree or disagree,,,,,BUT LIFE IS MADE A COMPLETE BOOK WITH ONLY ONE CHAPTER((LOVE))💋💕💕❤💖💝💞love l͚o͚v͚e͚