Well you see, from what Rahim told me, your dad actually got married to his mom when he was in Kaduna for two years, he had business there so I normally go down there to just visit, it was after we had your brother and I was finding it hard to have another child even though I was still very young at the time,you father and I, we were very much in love then." I couldn't help but notice the 'then' as in past. "People do Fall out of love, a relationship isn't just about love, there's trust, honesty,commitment and communication. The thing is, in that relationship your actions should speak for you, you should never have to explain yourself. If you trust your spouse then you never have to doubt him and he never has to explain anything and if there's no trust, the explanation will be meaningless