“What?! How? I had a husband doesn’t that make it so I can’t be a mate?” I just stared at him with my mind blank. I am his mate. He feels these strong feelings about me and I barely know him. He has been great to me and in my mind we have had dirty s*x with some cuddling but nothing mate worthy. I have been feeling calmer and more at peace with him around but I figured it was just getting some positive male attention.” Are you sure? Maybe your mate radar is off?” “I am very sure. I knew from the first time I smelled you in the office for breakfast. You smell so good and then I heard your voice. I knew you were the one and I could not believe it. I had not said anything to you before because I found out you had kids and I figured that I would get rejected. I also heard some of what you hav