In every seduction, romantic or otherwise, there are two elements one must evaluate and understand: first, yourself and what is seductive about you; and second, your mark and what it will take to penetrate their defenses and create surrender. I learned this by watching my father. Of course, I took his methods and refined them. There’s nothing sexy about being a copycat. For starters, if you never let anyone close, they’ll have a harder time finding flaws. People will follow a thing all the way through so long as there is a question they haven’t yet answered. Why am I so attracted to this person? Why am I so attracted to this person?What was his motive? What was his motive?What will she do next? What will she do next?If he meant this, why did he say that? If he meant this, why did h