Planning a big wedding can be tiring. Everytime I think of leaving my husband and marrying another man, planning another wedding makes me stay." Zizwe's mom winks at her husband and they laugh. She said that with a straight face. It made me uncomfortable for a minute. But I smile at the joke, wondering what she's planning to say. She explains before I can even ask.``I planned a girls' day out. We'll head to the spa and then have lunch at any restaurant you choose." I'm out of the chair before she can change her mind . I always wanted to go to a spa but I kept postponing. But last year on my parents' 23rd anniversary I paid for a spa treatment. They deserved that and more.
"Don't wear your headwrap if you don't feel like it." My mother-in-law shouts from the sitting room laughing. I decid
