LAWS OF SKILLS EPISODE 3A
5000 Words
one too by the special grace of God.
Hard Time Doesn't Last Forever !
END THIEF AND EMBRACE INTERGERTY
INTERGERTY is the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles. it's personal choice to hold ourselves to constantly moral and ethical standards.
Appointment into public office are no longer seen as a privilege to serve the state but people take it to be an opportunity to steal public founds.
Please watch yourself when you have such opportunity to serve others. Do it right, refuse to do in wrong ways. Everyone is built to be a great but action determines.
we are under the same blue sky but we are facing different direction. Some people are in sick bed, some are in sychatric hospital, some people are looking for jobs some people can't even eat three square mean and some people are spending cash recklessly in our society, this life is not balance at all.
if you are not a goal setter, you can't be a goal getter, let your light shinny in darkness for us to our future, You have to paint yourself great before you can become great in a nation.
But mind you, let God be, God had given us everything as a nation for our better living as a nation. but we have to work it out. Our belly's infrastructure was the one that is killing us in our society and Nation today
End thief and embrace INTERGERTY as a Nation is the key to great nation, in my own view corruption is not our problem in this nation but our greedy, stealing and thieft are the major predicaments in our society.
Until we realized our mistake, correct it, ament our dark ways, work it out in a right way, we are going no where as a nation.
If we can't redefine ourselves from head to toes, then it's will be difficult for us to achieve tomorrow, if Nigeria can't portray and embrace good attitude, transparent and straight forward, we are not going nowhere as a nation. And this one has to start from me and you as well as from our various homes.
Corruption is not our problem but intergrity is our problem and we don't have identify as a nation, Until we are remove the mentality of stealing and thieft generaly, we don't have identity as a nation.
LEARN FINANCIAL STRENGTH
Until You Follow The Principles Of Wealth Creation, You Will Remain In The Shadows Of Your Dreams To Becoming Financially Fee.There are 2 basic strategies of money making systems that makes you financially sustained.
The Rich make.
1. Other People's Money (OPM)
Making use of other people's money has been and still is a major source of financing business projects for the rich or serve as a means of investment funds for them.
Who borrows more? The Rich or The Poor? Your answer is as good as mine. The Rich do a lot of borrowing much more.
2. Other People's Time (OPT)
The Rich have mastered the art of
employing the time effort, skills, talent, intelligence and what have you of other people in order to be financially free.
J. Paul Getty says: "I rather earn 1% from the effort of a 100 persons than to earn a 100% on myself".
These 2 basic strategies put together is what is called a System.
You Must Employ The Use Of These Strategies If You Must Be Financially Free Especially When You Don't Have Anyone To Empower You.
To Make It More Powerful Turning Both Strategies Into A Money Making Machine To Generate Residual Income, Then Direct Sales Or Network Marketing Structure Can Be Applied.
REASONS WHY READING BOOKS SHOULD OLD BE PART OF of YOUR LIFE:
1. Knowledge Highway: Books offer a vast reservoir of knowledge on virtually any topic imaginable. Dive deep into history, science, philosophy, or explore new hobbies and interests.
2. Enhanced Vocabulary: Regular reading exposes you to a wider range of vocabulary, improving your communication skills and comprehension.
3. Memory Boost: Studies suggest that reading can help sharpen your memory and cognitive function, keeping your mind active and engaged.
4. Stress Reduction: Curling up with a good book can be a form of mental escape, offering a temporary reprieve from daily anxieties and a chance to unwind.
5. Improved Focus and Concentration: In today's fast-paced world filled with distractions, reading strengthens your ability to focus and concentrate for extended periods.
6. Empathy and Perspective: Stepping into the shoes of fictional characters allows you to develop empathy and gain a deeper understanding of different perspectives.
7. Enhanced Creativity: Reading exposes you to new ideas and thought processes, potentially sparking your own creativity and problem-solving skills.
8. Stronger Writing Skills: Immersing yourself in well-written prose can improve your writing style, sentence structure, and overall communication clarity.
9. Improved Sleep Quality: Swap screen time for a book before bed. The calming nature of reading can help you relax and unwind, promoting better sleep quality.
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READING SOCIETY IS A STRONG SOCIETY.
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A strong society is a reading society and creative and innovative society. They are elite, educated society in the world and they managed their Affair better that other non reading society in the world. we are educated illiterate in Nigeria because they don't read nor do research after their education. if you are not informed then you will be deformed.
The role of reading in education is undeniable. It sharpens our literacy, enhances cognitive abilities like memory and focus, and enriches our vocabulary. However, its impact goes beyond the academic. Reading is a lifelong journey of personal growth and understanding.
The Readers is more than just a brand of reading and blue-light glasses. We began with a clear idea: to make reading easier for the whole world.
The power of reading lies in its potential to make us smarter and increase our knowledge. In addition to the cognitive benefits, reading also has profound emotional advantages. Research shows that reading can help individuals develop emotional intelligence and empathy.
Books of all formats are necessary in order to facilitate learning and education. On a societal level, books enable people to gain a better overall understanding of specific topics, stimulating new thoughts and ideas in the reader which can lead to understanding and action.
A reading society or community and Nation manage their Affair better than worshipping certificate society, a reading society believe in reading and what they can do with their hand work, ideas not the society that worshipping certificate. A reading society always believe in youthful talented and using old experience for mentorship,
The reason while Africa continent remaining in one spot because we are not reading society as well as remain behind in all the other continents in the world.
we are out of information technology in Nigeria because other reading society are more are head of us in information technology.
If you want to be more intelligent begging to read and get fact about life.
BENEFITS OF READING SOCIETY.
√ reading society make use of digital technology education to run the nation economy Affair better the non reading society.
√ The reading society are elite and educated people and manage there natural resources better.
√ They managed their society well and orderly.
√ They have better ideas of using information technology well than non reading society.
√ They have good research institute room in the world .
√ Reading society manage their finance better then non reading society and they are more discipline than others.
BEWARES OF UNFRIENDLY FRIENDS
Life is full of unfriendly friends.
Some people didn't die when the arrow was in their chest, they died when they saw who threw the arrow.
Here are 12 Signs of Unfriendly friends;
1. Unfriendly friends plot against you at night and laugh with you in the morning. They smile a lot and act nice to you, but really, they are talking and gossiping behind your back.
2. They appear when they need you and disappear when you need them the most. They are very selfish and self-centered.
3. Your Success threatens them. They get upset when something good happens to you. They are highly covetous.
4. They blackmail you emotionally. Takes advantage of you. Cause you pain, hurt you and deceive you.
5. They always try to compete with you and make you feel they are better than you.
6. Unfriendly friends always criticize you negatively. They constantly point out all the negative things about your Life. They don't see anything good about you.
7. They discredit you and doubt everything you say or do. They hold you in low esteem and spread lies about you. They lack faith in you and belittle your achievements.
8. They are not consistent. You cannot depend or rely on them. They are not trustworthy.
9. Unfriendly friends don't feel bad or remorse when they hurt you. They never apologize rather they are judgmental; always feeling they are right.
10. They rejoice when something bad happens to you. Your pain gives them Joy.
11. Unfriendly friends will never patronize you even if you sell the secrets to Long Life and Prosperity, all because of envy and jealousy.
12. They are happy when you share your secrets with them, because, they are going to use it against you, to blackmail, hurt or betray you without your notice.
Sometimes, your problem is not the Problem; your actual Problem is the person you tell your problem.
The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked who can know it?
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FRIENDS STRONGER THAN BROTHERS
MEMORIES:
“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.” - (Proverbs 18:24)
BIBLE READING: 1 Samuel 18:1-4 (KJV)
1 And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.
MESSAGE:
Friendship is a very sensitive topic to discuss, especially in these last days when many have become lovers of themselves (2 Timothy 3:1-2). In spite of this, however, everybody still needs good friends. Some friends can be closer to you than a brother - you need one or two of such friends around you. Such friends will challenge you to do more for God and can tell you the truth when everyone else is afraid to do so. They are people that you can have as a shoulder to lean on when the chips are down.
Acts 3:1 says that Peter and John went to the temple. You may ask yourself, after the Holy Ghost descended on 120 people in Acts 2, why is the Bible bringing only these two to our notice? The reason, I believe, is that they were friends who were part of Jesus' inner circle. They were three in that circle - Peter, James and John. Out of these three, Peter and John had a close relationship even before Jesus died. If you read John 13:21-26, at the last supper, when Jesus said somebody was going to betray Him without telling them who it was, Peter beckoned to John and told him to ask Jesus. That is an example of a friend you can ask to pray for you concerning a matter you are not clear about, and he will hear from God for you.
After Jesus died and rose from the dead, the link between them obviously grew stronger. In John 20:1-8, when Mary Magdalene discovered that Jesus had risen and came to tell the apostles, two of the apostles ran to the tomb; they were Peter and John. It's interesting to note that John is the one who wrote the story, and he stressed that he outran Peter and got to the tomb first - in fact, he repeated it twice! I always wonder, "Why are you telling us that you beat him so emphatically?" There seemed to be a friendly competition as to who loved Jesus more between them.
You need friends you can have healthy competitions with on who can pray the longest, who reads more Scriptures, who wins more souls and so on. The link between Peter and John was strong, and it rested on their relationship with Jesus. You need friends whose link with you is majorly based on the link you both have with Jesus Christ.
REFLECTION:
Do you have a friend who challenges you to draw closer to God?
A FRIENDS IN Deed
A friend is always real until he proves himself as fake . In effect nobody has a fake friend otherwise he will not be your friend . The day you find out that any friend is fake , you will stop being his friend from that moment .
Friends are always kept close to heart . They are close to the surface of our hearts even when they are miles away in physical sense .
I was separated from my friend for many years after college and service in Nigeria . We were both on a saga for what best life can offer us and went in different directions. He went to Zimbabwe and I went to Commonwealth of Dominica . So for many years we were not in touch and neither did we hear from one another .
Fast forward many years after that , during my residency training in Baltimore , my heart began to draw to my friend . It progressed to agitation in my heart about my friend . I was yearning for him to be in the US , and knowing how brilliant he was . I knew he would definitely succeed in the US if the opportunity knocks.
During that week my phone rang. It was a call from my friend already in New York . Apparently the restlessness in our hearts, was going on at the same time , leading to us finding one another for a beautiful reunion .
He is a Professor of Veterinary Medicine at Auburn University .
Yes , friends can be miles apart and may not communicate for many years . They always live in the heart where love resides . I agree.
TRUE FRIENDS KNOWN BY RELATIONSHIP
it's a person who Stand by you in your present and stand for you at your back, or the person who can't stapled you at the back is your true friends in relationship.
WHAT IS A TRUE RELATIONSHIP?
It's about mutual growth, support, respect, and understanding. Both partners are invested in each other's happiness and well-being. Acceptance - True love means accepting each other's imperfections and loving the whole person, flaws and all. It's a more grounded and realistic view of each other.
HOW DO YOU KNOW a TRUE PARTNER?
You can usually recognize real love by these 12 signs.
You feel safe with them. ...
They listen. ...
They acknowledge your differences instead of trying to change you. ...
You can communicate easily. ...
They encourage you to do your own thing. ...
You trust each other. ...
They make an effort. ...
You know you can collaborate or compromise.
WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER AS REAL RELATIONSHIP.
Healthy relationships involve honesty, trust, respect and open communication between partners and they take effort and compromise from both people. There is no imbalance of power. Partners respect each other's independence, can make their own decisions without fear of retribution or retaliation, and share decisions.
√ You feel safe with them. ...
√ They listen. ...
√ They acknowledge your differences √ √ √ √ Instead of trying to change you. ...
√ You can communicate easily. ...
√ They encourage you to do your own thing. ...
√ You trust each other. ...
√ They make an effort. ...
√ You know you can collaborate or compromise.
HOW DO I KNOW IF A RELATIONSHIP IS SERIOUS :
Some relationships start on good solid grounds,that both partners are just sure of each other and in most cases of a serious relationship there is always a special commitments,trust,openness,communication and when your partner starts discussing marriage or wants to meet your parents. Then there's a green light.
HOW DO YOU TEST A GUY IF HE'S SERIOUS ABOUT YOU?
25 clear signs he is really serious about you
He will prioritize you over everything. ...
He will value your opinions. ...
He feels proud of you. ...
He motivates you to achieve your goals. ...
He will want to get romantic with you. ...
He introduces you to his parents. ...
He stands by you through thick and thin. ...
He trusts you with his feelings.
He will trust you.
He will love you
He will paid your bills.
He will care for you etc
TOP 8 SIGNS YOU'VE FOUND YOUR TRUE LOVE.
You're both ready. ...
They're the only person you want to flirt with. ...
You agree on key issues. ...
You trust them with your secrets and vulnerabilities. ...
You both fight fair. ...
They respect your opinions. ...
You feel comfortable and at peace around them. ...
The sincerity of a *husband* is known during the sickness of his wife.
*That of a wife* is known during the financial difficulty of the husband.
True love of *children* is known during the old age of the parents.
The true nature of *siblings* is known during distribution of inheritance.
The *sincerity* of friends is known during hard times.
*True relatives* are known when one is far from his country, lonely or sick.
*True love* is known when there is no means of benefit.
A *true believer* is known during times of hardship.
In all, life is the *teacher itself*.
May we grow in wisdom, understanding and patience. 🙏
1. *Be* careful so you don't *hate* a *lovely* *person* , because of a *dirty rumour* you heard about them which was created out of *jealousy* and *envy* .
2. *Try* to *appreciate* those who *gossip* about *you* . It's not easy for *someone* to *leave* their *problems* and *carry* yours on their *head* .
3. *Forgive* _betrayals_ but be *careful* with *them* , because next time they may not *spare* your *life* .
4. *Even* if you kill *yourself* for some *people*, they will still *complain* that you didn't *die* in a *proper* way.
Do your *best* and *leave* the *rest* , you can't *satisfy* _human being_ .
5. *If* you are always *worried* about what *others* are saying about *you* , you will *never* be *happy*.
6. *When* your _blessings_ are getting *closer* , your *attacks* become *greater*.
Don't look at the *storm*, *God* is the controller of all things he created, and is by your *side*, you're a victor.
7. Everybody can not love you, don't *lose* your *peace* over those who *hate* you.
Those who *convinced* people to hate you can not *convince God* to *hate* you.
8 Stay connected to God always.
*Have confidence in God for with God all things are possible.
THINK RIGHT ABOUT MONEY
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.
*THIS WORLD IS FAKE!!!!*
My money, my house, my car, my children, my certificates, my job, my husband, my wife, my families, my clothes, my SHOE.....
My ! My!! My !!! What is this life worth?
A man was informed about the death of his father, but he tarried. When his father started smelling, their neighbours took his father to the mortuary for preservation.
A week later, he went to the mortuary to see the corpse of his father. When he was about to enter the place, there was a poster placed at the entrance of the mortuary, of which no one can escape it. It read:
“ WE WERE LIKE YOU BEFORE, BUT WE ARE HERE NOW. ”
*The young boy read it, but it didn't make any sense to him.*
*He went inside, checked the corpse of his father, after a few minutes, he made his step out.
As he was about to step outside, he saw another inscription placed on a strategic location, which no one will escape. It says:
“ YOU WILL SOON BE LIKE US. ”
This last word touched his stone heart and he repented from that moment. From that moment, he understood,*
*Everything here on earth is like a dream, a vapour. Life itself is not real, as everything is temporal.*
*You will soon be like those that were once Living , Eating , Sleeping , Walking , Talking , Laughing here on earth , but today ......*
*They're NO MORE.*
*When he got to his father's mansion, there was nobody to talk to, his father left his shoes, clothes, money, bed, cars, EVERYTHING.*
*As he was searching his father's wardrobes, he saw untouched brand new dollars, well packed and arranged, but the owner of the money was in the mortuary. The young boy remembered,*
*“ WE WERE LIKE YOU BEFORE, BUT YOU WILL SOON JOIN US. ” He cried the more.*
*You eat chicken with vegetables and fish, turkey, meat , fried rice, and drink wine today , but tomorrow, your flesh becomes food for maggots.* where will your soul go to?
*You drive a nice car today, but tomorrow, a car drives you.*
*You live in a mansion today, but tomorrow you live in burial ground.*
*You sleep in a nice bed today, but tomorrow, you sleep inside the Grave !*
*There is no replacement for your soul ? It is priceless, unique and peculiar. The soul is the real you. It lives on after death.*
*You will lose everything if you die without GOD and without living for Him.*
*Please, ruminate on this, reconcile with your creator, and have a positive change of heart, so that your living on earth shall be to God's Glory and at the end of your good on earth, you will not end in oblivion.*
*A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.*
*“ Indeed we belong to God, and indeed to Him we shall return. ”*
*You might think you are in right standing with God therefore this message is for you not to fall back and completely for the sinners to repent. We must not deceive ourselves. Let us move more close to God.
LEADERSHIP
In a world where leadership preferences vary, it's intriguing to explore the diverse qualities that people find admirable in those they consider leaders of our time.
Leadership qualities often encompass a range of attributes, such as effective communication, decisiveness, empathy, and a strategic vision.
It is therefore fascinating to witness the diverse qualities that people value in leaders. We all at have a strong belief in our principal leadership qualities, which stems from observing how he embodies the stated traits.
So, recognizing individuals such as our "boss" who inspire confidence is not only about acknowledging his achievements but also about appreciating the positive impact he has made and has continued making on those around him.
It's evident that our holds a significant place in the hearts of the people, being recognized as the "man of the season" and "man of the people."
The impact of a leader goes beyond achievements, extending to the positive influence they have on those around them. as fits well into the above description.
NELSON Mandela, former SOUTH African PRESIDENT, wrote a personal awesome story.
After I became PRESIDENT, I asked one day some members of my close protection to stroll with me in the city, have lunch at one of its restaurants. We sat in one of the downtown restaurants and all of us asked for some sort of food.
"After a while, the waiter brought us our requests, I noticed that there is someone sitting in front of my table waiting for food"
*I told then one of the soldiers: Go and ask that person to join us with his food and eat with us. The soldier went and asked the man so. The man brought up his food and sat by my side as I asked and began to eat. His hands were trembling constantly until everyone had finished their food and the man went. The soldier said to me: the man was apparently quite sick. His hands trembled as he ate!"
"No, not at all," said Mandela.
"This man was the GUARD of the PRISON where I was JAILED.*
"Often, after the torture I was subjected to, I USED TO SCREAM and ASK for A LITTLE WATER.
"The very same man used to come every time and URINATE ON MY HEAD INSTEAD".
"So I found him scared, trembling, expecting me to reciprocate now, at least in the same way, either by torturing him or imprisoning him as I AM NOW THE PRESIDENT of the STATE OF SOUTH AFRICA."
*"BUT THIS IS NOT MY CHARACTER NOR PART OF MY ETHICS"
"The MENTALITY of RETALIATION DESTROYS STATES, while the MENTALITY of TOLERANCE BUILDS NATIONS.*
"The WEAK can NEVER FORGIVE ... FORGIVENESS is the attribute of the STRONG".
Kindly share with others to inspire them.
LEADERSHIP
In a world where leadership preferences vary, it's intriguing to explore the diverse qualities that people find admirable in those they consider leaders of our time.
Leadership qualities often encompass a range of attributes, such as effective communication, decisiveness, empathy, and a strategic vision.
It is therefore fascinating to witness the diverse qualities that people value in leaders. We all at have a strong belief in our principal leadership qualities, which stems from observing how he embodies the stated traits.
So, recognizing individuals such as our "boss" who inspire confidence is not only about acknowledging his achievements but also about appreciating the positive impact he has made and has continued making on those around him.
It's evident that our holds a significant place in the hearts of the people, being recognized as the "man of the season" and "man of the people."
The impact of a leader goes beyond achievements, extending to the positive influence they have on those around them. as fits well into the above description.
LIFE IS TOO SMALL TO FEEL BIGGER
Some years back, it was the most beautiful house in this community. The owner was the richest man in whom all looked up to for support. The vehicle was a cynosure of all eyes. It was like a dream come true when the owner added both house and vehicle to his list of possession. But today, the properties have grown old and in fulfillment of the natural law, must collapse for a new house to develop.
Should anyone be found living inside this building as it stands now, such a person is labelled as "insane" and must be kept at arm's length.
Nothing in life is worth fighting for. Your best clothes is someone's rag. Your account balance is someone's donation at a function. Your girlfriend/ boyfriend/ fiance/ fiancee is someone's ex. Every single prostitute you see in a hotel or on the street at night was at some point in time a virgin. So what is the squabble all about? Life is too small to feel bigger or better than anybody.
"We are all naked to death," says Steve Jobs. Nothing can save us from it. I hate to see people who brag about wealth, beauty, intelligence, level of education, fame and material possessions. There is nothing you have achieved in life that no one else has never gotten. There is only one thing that is worth bragging, which is: "Life in God Almighty". So, be good to your fellow man and always make friends. Always remember that the people you trampled upon on your way up a ladder will be the same set of people you are likely to pass on your way down.
So, cause no problem for others because if you do, they will become your very problem one day. Finally, even banana stems will one day become dried leaves. So, don't be driven by material possession. It will soon grow old and die.
THE WEAPON IS IN YOUR HAND
Their is a king in you, until you know who you are before you can rule the world.
Rules the world involve the use of wisdom knowledge and understanding, you can become anything in this world, if you can pay the price, Anything you want in this life hidden under your knowledge and in your ✋hand , One of my mentor said that if your brain disappointed you then don't lets your hand dispointed you.
Remember that a king and queen must not be finds in a dirty place, a dirty places made for a dirty people. A right personality always finds in a right places not wrong places, when life challenge you then you have to challenge life back.if not you will sink under the challenges and predicaments of life. life is a school but predicaments are the experience of life and everyone will passes through the challenges of life in different ways.
Always follow the principles of life that govern the life before you can be a king or queen in life we are living. Until you follow the principles that govern the life , life become challenges, difficulties predicaments and problems because their is time to plant seeds and time to harvest seeds showed. Remember that their is a king in you .
🦁 Lion is a king of jungle but it's has to continue to struggle and running faster to achieve it daily means. The animal that running after you determine the rate of your speed for you not to be consumed under this life. You can't be in font of war fare and be sleeping, you have must make use of weapon in your hand faster. if you flood your hand at zone then then you are a deaths person because other people or enemies weapon will hits to you finally. one
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