“It’s weird that we’re back in contact though, I was just thinking about her the other week. I hadn’t thought about her for years and then this song that we both liked came on the radio and it was like a stone in my shoe.”
I felt a little saddened afterwards, I too had put too much into relationships only to find that the other person felt claustrophobic and the funny thing was I couldn’t even say that I was obsessed with the other person. My problem was that I tried too hard to be the perfect partner, it’s a part of the human condition and while we see what we’re doing at the time it’s like your actions are stuck in an eternal loop and you’re just an observer. If something was going to change then it had to start with me, I came to that revelation the following night as I sat in a pub nu
