-Grace- --Now-- My boys are both sitting at the dinner table. I put the stack of pancakes on the table and both immediately reach for the pancakes. Not only James has grown, but so has Thom. Both do well at school, both exercise a lot and therefore eat even more. Both go with Luca, three times a week. When Lizzy enters the kitchen, the plate with the pancakes is already empty. "Good morning mommy." Lizzy hugs me "Good morning sweetheart." I kiss her head. "The teacher allows me to invite five people, who should I ask mommy?" she asks "For what?" asks James. "Ballet," I answer, and James nods. "I want to come." He tells us and Thom laughs. "Me too." He smiles at Lizz, she looks at me with big eyes. "Mom!" "Yes, sweetheart I hear it. How nice." I nod at my boys and she n