RUHANI His voice does not affect me now as much as it used to affect me when I was apparently madly in love with him. I should not call that love, because love can never be like that. It won't be wrong if I call him my past obsession. I was merely obsessed with Arsal, nothing else. My own obsession with him brought me several heartaches. He never loved me, because we can't hurt anyone we love. On the other hand, I too, never loved him, because I only understood the real meaning of love after I met my husband. It's not that our marriage was always perfect. We have seen several ups and downs in our marriage, but all the adversities were solved as soon as my little son entered our lives. He is the little soul that has cheered our lives up. But Arjun always gave me the strength to face a