The Strongest Sagittarian Mother Nammu

Qualities that's needed in her going to be husband.. part two

She in her sentimental mood plunged into her room and started scribbling her words in her diary. She was thinking what qualities might be needed in her going to be husband. She was deeply affected by the incident concurred in Radha's life.

She deepened herself that these qualities are the must one.

Her going to be husband should respect her family. He should understand the financial situation of family. He can raise his eyebrows of dissatisfaction with her but he is not allowed to create family conflicts in public domain. She wanted her husband to support her dreams. She wanted to be a singer, writer, and a teacher who dotingly tutor her students. She wanted to participate in various outdoor projects. She wanted to be free as this working issues had exhausted her personal life. Now, she need love and affection. She wanted her husband to be a hard-working man who help in all indoor and outdoor affairs. He wished a man who will not raise his hands or words infront of her. He will understand her menstrual pain, appreciate her working and let her to aspire her dream. She wanted to read rather cooking all of the delicacies for her family. She had wished a picture perfect man in her life. She curled herself into a ball and started frittering the beautiful imagination. She had never ever feel the pristine love of a boyfriend. She hadn't beautify herself infront of a mirror in a bridegroom dress. She hadn't even feel those butterfly and firework moment in her life. She hadn't cover herself in a beautiful dresses. She hadn't even felt the beautiful affair of moon and those stars. She was too busy in her own figments and for family that she had finally realized in her 24 years of life, all she had done is working and earning.

Finally, she slept thinking as she have so many works in her hand. She started continuing her job.

After some days, she got to know that some one is coming from Nepal to see her. The photographs which she had clicked for herself was taken by her sister Rita's husband. Without any concern or asking if she is interested or not he took her pictures stating that all sisters are his responsibility. Although, nobody hadn't even stated to take any responsibility. She was feeling little apprehensive that her important part of matter is going to be decided without her consult.

At this time no family wasnot even talking about Meena marriage. All were in their peaceful mode. She was told to be mentally prepared that a man from Nepal is coming to see her. She was pursuing her second year of bachelor studies and she wanted to continue her studies atleast. But all were paying heed on her marriage rather than expending money on her future career. She was told that her man will help her in further studies and she doesn't have to worry about financial condition as they are strong.

Without proper interrogation the meeting was going to be conducted. Rita husband was too confident in his decision-making. He was pulling out his sleeve that he was doing good in Nammu life coming as a Virgin Mary to rescue her dark life. He wanted to ease one burden of Karki Family and dowry thing.

Rita husband Sarman met this man when he was in Nepal, going somewhere for his work. He loved this person gesture of greeting and he went to this stranger home when he was invited for hospitality. He saw the sweetest delicacies chicken rice and expensive sweets on his plate. He queried how many portion of land does that young man posses? Their senior head humbly replied almost two three lands are there for this young gentleman.

(You might be thinkng why Sarman is interested in this man land. At that time, land is the main benchmark to settle marriages. People see land for their daughter safeties and financial security).

Good food and small interrogation intended Sarman to decide that Nammu should meet this gentleman. His authoritative words dunk the darkest aeon in Nammu's life. Nammu mother was helpless as Sarman was the husband of her first daughter. She couldn't say No. This repressed domain of female catalog for not speaking for themselves creates a huge fiasco in someone's life. This rubble was starting to crumble.

The beautiful castle of Nammu's life is slowly slowly crumbling in a quicksand of people's judgement. Yet she had to say yes, as it was a crucial matter begotted by her own sister husband.