It was late until in 2016, when I was so small between the age of 12 and 13. I never knew any thing like sex and it negative because my mom who suppose to have taught me died when I was at the age of 6 leaving me and my father, since then my father never care about how I was and how I ate. It was only my grandma who took me as her own daughter and taught me many things concerning this world without any sex education Though I don't blame her because she was uneducated . On April I started my primary education at government school ijeba there, the teachers was so corrupt and they paid apathy to every lectures only few were good. I began to imagine myself who was attending high school in town because of my mom's death Seening myself at this kind of village school. No whahala I said to myself I bend down or I follow the crowd. When I came back from school, there was a boy called Tony who is living opposite to our house with his mother and equally my classmate we usually played together as mate during rainfall we usually run naked and play with each other touching ourselves with out any sexual sensation and I will always see his unmentionable j man giggling like our school bell and in turn he will also see my unmentionable horn pot but in all I never taught any evil in my heart. When I was in primary five I started having some development in my body system seeming my unmentionable two goal keeper developing and becoming enlarged and I saw some beautiful hair in my honey pot and Tony would be looking at me with a smiling face

this concept is derived from the philosophy of ubuntu which signifies living together as brothers and sisters in a community